I'm sorry that someone unfriended you, Ashton. Now that you have written the eulogy for that friendship my advice is to let it go and move on. I have discovered that friends are easy to find as long as you're coming from "what can I do for you" rather than "what can you do for me." The most precious friendships in my life are the ones that came out of left field and defy all logic. I am blessed with several of those relationships at the moment. They might all be gone tomorrow but if they are I'll be okay because I have total confidence in my ability to find more. That's the power of creating a model of the universe which is one of abundance rather than scarcity.

I have lots of other friends, that's for sure. It just sucks to realize once and for all that you've lost someone who was such a special part of your life... especially in the way this happened. It makes you question a lot of things.

I can so relate to this. Have I told you about my former best friend? She did the same to me. She chose someone whom she just met on Friendster (which was like 3-years-ago's Facebook). Yes, it hurt me. I got angry. It still makes me angry now and it's been three years. I have decided to end our friendship when she turned the blame on me.

It's a long story and is very complicated.

I love how you still value your friendship with him. And I'm glad you have decided to cut the cords. You deserve better. :)

You deserve better, too!