2018 Recap: Top 12 Posts

Where did 2018 go? As we get ready to ring in the new year, I thought it would be fun to look back on the 12 most popular posts from the last year. It was interesting to see which posts you guys responded to more. Each post on this list was written in 2018. Here we go!

#12 - Three posts tied for this spot: 13 Truths About Working Moms in which I share some of the realities working mothers deal with, Desk to Date in which I talk about one of my favorite boutique finds, and 15 Free or Cheap Things to Do This Fall.

#11 - New Job - First Week Recap: This may have been the most bizarre first week of work ever.

#10 - Workplace Sparkle: Who says you can't wear a sequin skirt to the office?

#9 - How to Throw a Fairy-rific Tinker Bell Party: All the details from Alexis's third birthday party.

#8 - Harsh Realities of Journalism & How to Deal: Some practical ways for new journalists to deal with criticism, having to work holidays (including Christmas) and the reality of not being able to help everyone.

#7 - Spring Has Sprung: If Spring were an outfit, this would be it.

#6 - Mommy the Journalist's Mother's Day Gift Guide: My first-ever gift guide.

#5 - 20 Things to Do with Kids This Summer: Free and cheap things to keep kids occupied over the summer months.

#4 - Polka Dots & Lace: Still love this combo.

#3 - Shopping for Alexis: Shopping for a Toddler Girl on a Budget - all my favorite places to find cute, affordable clothes for little girls.

#2 - Career Change: Leaving TV News - This post announces my job change and tells the story of how I stumbled into my dream job.

#1 - The Real Reason I'm Leaving TV News: In this post I talked about why my career change was the right move for my family.

Those were just the top 12, but I did want to share a couple of Honorable Mentions that were also pretty popular in the last year: How Our Family Does Screen Time and 8 Things I've Learned About Love and Relationships.

Other than finishing up a couple of things for the January issue of Wiregrass Parents, I'm taking the week between Christmas and New Year's off. I'll be starting off 2019 with a post about my goals for the year, and of course you can expect all your favorites to continue. In the meantime, keep up with what's going on through my Instagram and/or Facebook pages!

From my family to yours, Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

Photos by J.Sanford Art.

10 Last-Minute Gift Ideas for Her

If you're like me, you haven't finished your Christmas shopping. Although I will say we're a lot further along than we usually are at this point in the countdown. Generally speaking, a week before the big day is probably not the best time to order a gift online. However, there are still some places out there that guarantee they'll get your gift to you on time, but beware of higher shipping costs. For those of you who want a little more peace of mind, I've rounded up some last-minute gift ideas for ladies that you should be able to find in an actual store.

1. Let's start with something that's super easy but heartfelt all at the same time: a framed photo. For a significant other, print out a favorite photo of the two of you together. For grandparents, frame a recent family photo. You should go with at least a 5x7. I really like these ceramic frames and this distressed wood frame.

2. Jogging pants -- I'm talking about a sleek pair that won't make her feel like a bum when she leaves the house. I like (and want) these ones from Old Navy.

3. Assorted make-up sponges -- It may seem silly but these make good stocking stuffers.

4. New make-up brushes -- A good set of these can be costly, which is probably why your lady hasn't replaced hers recently. I like this set.

5. Harper Crossbody - for the girl who's always on the go but hates carrying around a big purse. This crossbody is on Oprah's list of favorites!

6. Novelty Bookends -- for your favorite reader. I'm digging these pineapple bookends for myself.

7. Blue-light blocking glasses -- for the woman who's always on her computer/tablet/phone. Her eyes will thank you. I just started using this pair.

8. iPhone Charger Tassel Keychain -- who would turn down a phone charger they can keep with their keys that doesn't scream 'I'm a phone charger!' Seriously cute.

9. Neck Massager Pillow -- This is perfect for anyone who sits at a desk all day. I have this one and love it. So does my daughter.

10. Full-Body Massage -- A legitimate massage from a certified masseuse, not one you give her.

To those of you who still have lots to buy, good luck! Merry Christmas!

Outfit Details
Sweater: JCPenney (exact)
Jeans: The Limited (exact)
Boots: ShoeDazzle (exact)

Bell Sleeve Tee + Lace-Up Jeans

I love a t-shirt that's more than a t-shirt. The smaller bell sleeves give this tee interest but the super soft material make it feel like lounge wear. I'm wearing a M, but I tried on an XS and S and could wear both. There honestly wasn't a lot of difference in the body of the shirt but the seam of the bell sleeve was too tight to be comfortable in the smaller ones. So I definitely recommend trying it on to make sure the sleeves aren't too tight.

This shirt comes in a lot of colors/patterns. Mine is the light gray heather, but I also really liked the copper falls and burnt coral. The sleeves are three-quarter length so perfect for a typical southern winter day. They're on sale for under $30 right now. My jeans are half off right now. I'm wearing them in size 6.

Details
Shirt: Kohl's (exact)
Jeans: JCPenney (exact)
Boots: Belk (similar)

Family Christmas + 2018 Goals Check-In

We had our first family Christmas this past weekend. Nothing fancy, just food and gifts, so comfy clothes were a must but I still wanted to feel festive. This velvet tee from Old Navy is seriously so soft and comfortable. I honestly wasn't expecting to like it as much as I do. Paired with these shimmer pants, it was the perfect comfy yet festive outfit. Unfortunately my pants are out of stock but the Stevie comes in a lot more options. I'm wearing medium in both.

The end of the year always seems so much busier than the rest of the year. Honestly, I'm always kind of relieved when it's all over and life can return to normal. I like to look back on the year that's passed and remember all the good things that happened. I also like to think about the goals I set at the beginning of the year and if I was able to achieve them. This past year I wanted to exercise more, cook more dinners at home, and disconnect from my devices more frequently. I was definitely hit-or-miss on the exercise, but I feel like I was successful on my other two goals. What about you? Did you smash your 2018 goals?

Instagram Roundup

I can't believe Christmas is a little more than two weeks away. Our first family get together is next weekend! Have you finished your shopping yet? I've barely even started. Last-minute shopping is kind of my thing, although I'd prefer to describe it as leisurely shopping and savoring the season. While I fill up my online shopping carts with gift ideas, check out what you've missed on Instagram the past couple of weeks.

This shirt is more pink than it appears in the picture. It's relaxed peplum hem is very forgiving and the back has the cutest buttons. I'm wearing a small. My jeans are from back before The Limited took a hiatus but this pair is similar and on sale. Wearing the boots in a size 7 regular. I have a narrow foot and these are almost too narrow for me, so you might want to go up a half size.

I got this lightweight quilted vest during Black Friday sales. It's thinner than the frost free vests, and most importantly for me the collar is smaller. I'm wearing a small. My shirt is from a few years ago but this one is similar. These Aeropostale jeans are supposed to be skinny but for me they fit more like straight-leg jeans. Maybe they'll shrink up some when I wash them. Wearing size 8. I've had these ankle boots for several years, but these are similar.

Sweater (old) - similar | Shirt (old) - similar | Jeans (old) - exact | Boots (old) - similar

I am in love with this ruffle sleeve top. It's on sale for under $20 and comes in several other colors including an adorable green polka dot print. I'm wearing size medium. My utility vest is sold out in green but still available in pink. These are my favorite pair of jeans, and they're on sale for less than $20 right now. Boots are linked above.

Shirt (old) - similar | Vest - exact | Jeans (old) - similar | Boots - exact

Posts You May Have Missed:
20 Gift Ideas for Working Moms
32 Things I'm Thankful for This Year (Birthday Post)
15 Gifts Under $10 for Preschool Girls
Ashton's 25 Days of Holiday Movies
5 Tips for Writing a Monthly Column

5 Tips for Writing a Monthly Column

Every month I write a column that's printed inside the first few pages of Wiregrass Parents. So far, I've written four and am currently working on the fifth. It's been almost 20 years since the last time I wrote a monthly column that didn't have an assigned topic for my high school newspaper, The Paw Print, so it'd be safe to assume I was out of practice. The first month wasn't too difficult as it was more of an introduction to the magazine and myself, but man did I struggle that second month. I thought I'd hit my stride in November, but I hit a wall writing December's column. Writing is like that: some days the words flow easily, other days not so much, but there are some simple steps you can follow to make the process a little smoother.

1. When in doubt, write what you know. For my columns, I like to reference our feature articles, but sometimes because I only have one child who's under age 5, they're not exactly relatable to any of my experiences. So instead of trying to write around those specific topics as they relate to my parenting experience, I share a childhood memory that ties into the topic.

2. Draw on your own experiences. People don't like to read impersonal columns. Whether it's sharing a parenting story, childhood experience, or something that's just about me, using those personal anecdotes helps bring the entire article together.

3. Read similar columns/articles. I seriously do this every month. I read my sister publishers' monthly columns, as well as editorials from major publications and even blogs. Reading other writers' work helps inspire me.

4. Write in a circle. The first and last paragraphs have always been the hardest things for me to write. I've been known to write the middle part of a piece before the beginning. Sometimes, I write the end first. But no matter where I start, one thing that helps me is writing in a circle, or beginning and ending on the same topic. It helps bring a sense of resolution.

5. Use a call to action. Challenge your readers to do something. After Hurricane Michael hit our area, I shared how my family was helping those affected and encouraged my readers to do what they could to help as well. You do have to be careful with this one as certain topics can make it appear as if you're biased for or against something.

I hope these tips help anyone who writes regular columns, articles, or even blog posts. If you've got other tips that have helped you, please share!

Ashton's 25 Days of Holiday Movies

I love Christmas movies, and judging by the popularity of The Hallmark Channel and Freeform's 25 Days of Christmas this time of year, I'm not alone. But let's face it, Hallmark and Freeform don't always have what you're wanting to watch right now, and if you're a guy neither channel's line-ups may appeal at any time. That's why I've rounded up 25 movies of my own to get you through the holiday season.

My Favorites
Meet Me in St. Louis - Released in 1944, this Judy Garland classic introduced the world to the timeless song, "Have Yourself a Merry Little Christmas." Technically, Christmas only makes up one portion of the movie, with scenes from summer and fall (specifically Halloween) making up the majority of screen time, but the Christmas scenes are unforgettable.

The Holiday - Two women, Iris (Kate Winslet) and Amanda (Cameron Diaz), swap homes for the holidays. Each woman is running away from a past relationship. Both meet new partners, Graham (Jude Law) and Miles (Jack Black), and rediscover who they are as women.

White Christmas - Is it even Christmas if you haven't watched this movie? Set after World War II, a pair of performers, played by Bing Crosby and Danny Kaye, set out on a mission with a sister act (Rosemary Clooney and Vera-Ellen) to save their former Army commander's Vermont Inn.

National Lampoon's Christmas Vacation - Clark Griswold (Chevy Chase) wants to have the perfect Christmas, but losing his holiday bonus, a visit from his crazy brother-in-law, and a glitch in his decorations quickly add up to disaster. This movie seriously makes my sides ache from laughing.

Rise of the Guardians - Talk about an all-star cast: Alec Baldwin as Santa Claus, Hugh Jackman as the Easter Bunny, Isla Fisher as the Tooth Fairy, Chris Pine as Jack Frost,Jude Law as Pitch Black (the boogeyman) and the non-verbal Sandman. Each actor is perfectly suited to their character, especially Alec Baldwin. Santa, Bunny, Tooth, and Sandy are protectors of children. When Pitch makes a comeback, Jack Frost is reluctantly added to the guardians' line-up. Watch this with your kids at your own risk. It may turn into a daily request.

Comedy
Elf - Buddy (Will Ferrell) is a human who was raised by one of Santa's elves. When he learns of his true heritage, he sets out to find his biological father. Along the way he meets a girl and helps bring back the true spirit of Christmas.

The Santa Clause - Scott Calvin (Tim Allen) takes on the role of Santa Claus when he accidentally causes the old Santa to fall off his roof on Christmas Eve and he and his son, Charlie, finish delivering all the presents. The next day, Scott believes it was all a dream, but the closer it gets to Christmas, the more Santa-like he becomes.

Home Alone - When Kevin McCallister (Macauley Culkin) gets left at home for the family Christmas vacation, he believes his wish to not have a family has come true. Soon he finds himself up against a duo of con-men set on robbing his home and sets elaborate traps to stop them.

I'll Be Home for Christmas - Jake (Jonathan Taylor Thomas) and his dad don't get along. In fact, Jake wasn't planning on being home for Christmas, but he decides to make the trip when he finds out he's getting a classic Porsche. A practical joke leaves him stranded in the desert in a Santa suit, and he has to hitchhike across the country.

Just Friends - When it comes to Jamie (Amy Smart), Chris (Ryan Reynolds) has been stuck in the friend zone for years. When he unexpectedly goes home for Christmas, Chris finally has the chance to win his high school love.

Last Holiday - For Georgia Byrd (Queen Latifa), it takes a terminal diagnosis to start truly living her life. Believing she only has a few weeks to live, Georgia withdraws her life's savings, flies to Europe and starts living like a millionaire.

Traditional
A Charlie Brown Christmas - This was the Peanuts gang's first animated holiday special, and it's become a yearly tradition for many families. There's nothing fancy about this made-for-tv movie, but perhaps its simplicity is what gives this classic it's staying power. Perfect for teaching kids the true meaning of the season and for adults who grew up on Charlie Brown and friends.

How the Grinch Stole Christmas - I'm partial to the 1966 version, narrated by Boris Karloff (who also provides the voice of the infamous Grinch). Visit the world of the Whos during Christmas and takes them down the path of the Grinch who steals it all away. But never fear! The Grinch has a change of heart and catches the Christmas spirit in the end.

Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer - Sam the snowman, voiced by Burl Ives, tells the story of how Rudolph the red-nosed reindeer came to lead Santa's sleigh. Travel with Rudolph as he and his misfit friends try to find their place in the world and teach the world that being different isn't a bad thing.

The Chronicles of Narnia: The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe - Okay, so this isn't widely thought of as a Christmas movie, but this story is largely thought to be based on Jesus, with the lion Aslan being C.S. Lewis's depiction of Christ. Even if you don't hold with that theory, much of this movie is based in the winter, despite no mention of Christmas as it's set in war-torn Europe and a distant land.

In the Good Old Summertime - Another Judy Garland classic, this remake of The Shop Around the Corner ends during the Christmas season. It's the story of Veronica Fisher, played by Garland, and Andrew Derby Larkin, played by Van Johnson. The couple become romantic pen pals without knowing they're coworkers who don't get along at all.

Little Women - While I enjoyed the Winona Ryder version of this movie, my favorite is the 1933 film starring Katherine Hepburn as Jo, Joan Bennett as Amy, Frances Dee as Meg, and Jean Parker as Beth. Whenever I read Louisa May Alcott's books, these are the characters I visualize. Set during the Civil War, the March sisters must overcome poverty and emotional crises.

Non-Traditional
The Nightmare Before Christmas - This has become a cult classic both at Halloween and Christmas. Halloweentown's Jack Skellington has become bored with his own holiday and after discovering Christmastown decides to become Santa. As you can imagine, his scary ideas don't exactly lead to the ideal holiday, and Jack finds himself in danger, but his secret admirer, Sally, comes to the rescue.

Batman Returns - This movie is regarded as one of the worst Batmans ever made, but it's set 100% during Christmas. It's so ridiculous and perfectly Tim Burton, that it deserves a mention, especially if you're one of those people who likes hosting 'bad movie nights.'

Red - Although Christmas is never specifically mentioned, this action film is definitely set during the holiday season. It even starts out with Frank (Bruce Willis) stealing his neighbor's decoration. Then he, along with three other ex-CIA agents, are targeted by hitmen and go on the offensive to figure out why. Anyway, I think this is a nice alternative to Die Hard. The cast (Willis, Morgan Freeman, John Malkovich, Helen Mirren, Mary-Louise Parker) is amazing, and there's plenty of explosions and humor.

Most Memorable Holiday Scenes
You've Got Mail - Kathleen Kelly (Meg Ryan) and Joe Fox (Tom Hanks) are falling for each other online. There's just one problem: they're professional rivals. This movie makes my list because of the poignant scene about mid-film in which Kathleen is decorating her shop for Christmas and reminisces on holidays with her late mother.

Mean Girls - We all know why this movie makes the list. Nearly the entirety of the take-down of Regina George (Rachel McAdams) by Cady Herring (Lindsay Lohan) happens during the holidays, starting with the strategic candy cane grams to the infamous Jingle Bell Hop dance.

Bridget Jones's Diary - Who could forget the ugly Christmas sweater party?

New Year's Eve
Poseiden - Once you've exhausted your Christmas movie tolerance, it's time to move on to movies about New Year's Eve, of which there are very few. But that's exactly when this remake of 1972's The Poseiden Adventure is set. The cruise ship Poseiden is overturned by a rogue wave and a handful of passengers make their way through the devastation to the bottom of the ship, which is now the top.

New Year's Eve - First of all, could they have fit anymore stars in this movie? Seriously, there are about ten plot lines happening throughout this entire movie, but somehow it works. If you're looking for something to watch other than the Times Square countdown, I highly recommend this movie.

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

15 Gifts Under $10 for Preschool Girls

Every year our daycare has a Christmas party, complete with a secret Santa gift exchange where each child brings a gift and receives a gift. Everything must cost $10 or less. Most of the time the girls bring girl gifts and the boys bring boy gifts (some of the gifts are gender neutral). Alexis is at the age now where she's particular about the gifts she receives, as I imagine are most other 3-and-a-half year olds. So I rounded up 15-under-$10 gifts for preschool girls to consider if you've got a preschool/daycare gift exchange coming up or if you need some ideas for stocking stuffers. And bonus! Many of the gifts included come in great options for little boys.

1. LOL Surprise! Ball - $9.99
Every time we go to Target, Alexis picks up one of these. We haven't actually walked out with one yet, but I've got a sneaky suspicion Santa Claus will be leaving one in her stocking. They come in lots of different styles and there are even pets! The singles are under $10 and can also be gotten at Walmart.

2. Pop Teenies Surprise Poppers - $4.99
I was turned onto these by Janssen over at Everyday Reading. Very similar to the LOL Surprise! Ball, Pop Teenies have a small doll inside, along with confetti. In addition to making good stocking stuffers, they're also great for gift exchanges!

3. Unlined Notepad
If your preschooler is like mine, they love to write. Alexis has filled every notebook I have with scribbles. She especially likes ones with unlined paper like these chubby notebooks you can get at Target. We recently gave the unicorn one as a gift, and I'm seriously considering getting one for Alexis's stocking.

4. Coloring Book
Is there such a thing as too many coloring books? I don't think so, and this Dream Doodle Draw! one is definitely worth adding to your collection. I love that it has traditional coloring pages as well as places for doodling and prompts to stir your child's imagination.

5. Scented Pens
For my little diva in training, plain old pens just won't do. These ones from Target are only $5 and have a bold tip.

6. Scratch Art Rainbow Notes - $7.99
With these colorful note papers, you won't have to worry about your little one straying off the page and writing on your furniture.

7. Reusable Sticker Book - $4.99
Alexis is very much into stickers...until they lose their stickiness. That's why I've added these super fun reusable sticker books to her list. They come with lots of backgrounds, and my favorite part - the stickers will only stick to them. It's a win-win!

8. Lacing & Tracing Animals - $7.99
I love toys that encourage quiet play and encourage learning. These lace and trace pets are perfect for car rides, restaurants, even church! They come in lots of other fun shapes including dinosaurs.

9. Crayola Scribble Scrubbie - $7.99
It's a pet you can design any way you want, then wash off and start over! Not only are these on my list for Alexis, but they might be what we take for her class Christmas party. It also comes in a cat.

10. Hatchimals Collegtibles - $9.99
As much as I don't like these, there's no denying they're a crowd pleaser. Alexis has at least a dozen (no more please!) that she plays with frequently.

11. Bath Bomb
If given the choice between a bath bomb and bubbles, Alexis will choose a bath bomb every time. In keeping with the season, I plan on picking up a Santa Bomb from Target for her stocking.

12. Bath Set
Just like my mom always put a toothbrush in our stockings growing up, I almost always put some kind of bath stuff in Alexis's. She's recently gotten into Peppa Pig, so this set from Walmart is a good bet.

13. Jewelry
You really can't go wrong with new jewelry. I especially love the DIY necklace in the graphic above. It's 5 necklaces in one! This unicorn necklace and charm bracelet are super cute options. Alexis has been wanting a watch so we might order this one.

14. Socks
Who says a practical gift has to be boring? Keep your little princess's toes warm and cozy with some princess socks.

15. Sunglasses
My child has inherited my sunglasses addiction, and it just so happens the pair she had in my car were broken recently. Perfect opportunity for a stocking stuffer!

Don't see anything on this list you like? Let me know what you'd add in the comments!

32 Things I'm Thankful for This Year (Birthday Post)

Every birthday I like to look back on all the good things that happened in the past year, and there's been plenty to be thankful for in year 31. Last year, I decided to write down 31 things I was thankful for, one for every year I'd been alive. It was surprisingly difficult but it felt good to only focus on good things. I decided to turn this into a tradition, as a way to remind myself there's way more good than bad in my life.

1. I am so thankful for my new job. It's given me peace of mind, more free time, and the ability to take days off guilt-free, all while letting me return to my print journalism roots.

2. Working at home. It's been a transition, that's for sure, and it's something I never would have pictured myself doing, but I'm so grateful for the opportunity. Not only does working from home give me more flexibility than working in an office, but it's also given me more control over housework without feeling like it's taking time from other, more important things.

3. New computer. Technically there wasn't anything wrong with my old laptop, but it's almost 10 years old and was moving much too slowly to use for work (or really anything else).

4. Alexis potty trained! Over the summer it finally clicked all the way, meaning we're finished with pull-ups and diapers and can use that money somewhere else.

5. Netflix and DVR/On Demand. I combined these because I use them in similar ways. Being a parent means rarely getting to watch the shows you want when they air the first time, or discovering a show you like after everyone else has been watching for several seasons.

6. Target. I mean, who wouldn't be grateful for this store?

7. Fresh flowers. In the last year, picking out fresh flowers for the table has been one of the special activities Alexis and I do together.

8. Husband. I'm thankful for my husband every day, but especially within the last few months. He didn't laugh at me when I told him my idea for starting a magazine and encouraged me to explore the possibility. He supported me when I quit my stable job and started something uncertain, and has gone out of his way to help me be successful.

9. Daughter. Parenting can be hard, but this loving little girl makes it all worthwhile.

10. Mountain Dew. Does this need any explanation?

11. Satellite radio. It's one of the few extras worth paying for in my opinion, especially since there are no local radio stations that play the kind of music I like to hear.

12. Rewards programs. Whether its Walgreens or JCPenney, I almost never buy anything without using rewards or points or building up more.

13. My natural curls. They're a pain in the butt, especially on rainy days, but now that I've finally figured out how to handle them, I love having curls.

14. Online shopping. Some of my favorite places to shop have either shrunk their women's departments in stores or don't have a local store here. Plus, it's nice to not have to put on clothes or makeup.

15. Books.

16. Lore Olympus. It's a webcomic I recently discovered that is a modern retelling of the Taking of Persephone.

17. The Isaac Bell detective books by Clive Cussler. They're my new reading obsession.

18. Fashion. It's like art without having to draw.

19. Cooking. One of my goals at the beginning of the year was to eat more dinners at home. Thanks to my career change, it's gone much better than I had hoped.

20. Bubble baths/bath bombs.

21. My parents, without whom I would be nothing.

22. My best friends. Even though we don't see each other often anymore, it's nice to know there are three people out there who've always got my back.

23. Family. They never fail to teach me the type of person I want to be.

24. My office. It's a space I created that's just for me. (Just don't look at the other half of the room where Alexis plays...)

25. Facebook, but not in a way that you're thinking. It's revolutionized the way I do my job.

26. Daycare. They've taught Alexis so much, from her ABC's to helping with potty training.

27. Mexican food.

28. Supernatural - the show, the memes, the cast. Everything to do with it.

29. Blogging. I'm grateful for this platform where I can share my experiences, express myself, and help people find deals on clothes they might like.

30. My experience working for WTVY. I may not be there anymore, but working in that place for nine years taught me a lot about the business of television news and life in general.

31. Canva. It's an online program to create graphics, perfect for making photo collages or images for Instagram. Best of all, you can use it for free.

32. The last one is always the hardest, not because I can't think of something I'm thankful for but because I want it to be something worthy of ending on. This year, I'm extremely grateful that my family came through a category 3 hurricane unharmed. Sure we're all having to replace things (in my grandparents' case, their home), but no one was injured and we all made it through to help each other. I know we were all luckier than a lot of other people, and I hope none of us take it for granted. And I hope none of you have forgotten about those people in the hardest hit areas who are still dealing with the extreme aftermath of Hurricane Michael.

Here's to year 32. May I continue to build on the successes of the past year and remember to always find gratitude. Happy birthday to me.

Outfit Details
Shirt: Old Navy (old) - similar
Jacket: TJMaxx (old) - similar
Jeans: JCPenney (new)
Boots: Target (old) - similar

3 Last-Minute Thanksgiving Outfit Ideas

Do you know what you're wearing to Thanksgiving dinner yet? If you're like me, you'll probably wait until the morning of to decide what to wear. So I put together some easy, last-minute ideas for you. Can you guess which outfit I'm most likely to be seen in?

Laid Back Style
Just grab your favorite pair of jeans, a cozy sweater and trusty ankle boots. My jeans are a couple years old from ShoeDazzle. My sweater is from last winter but this one from Gap is very similar and on sale right now. My boots are three years old and no longer available, but check out these triple buckle booties from Target.

Casual Chic Style
Keep it understated but classy in black jeans, a printed statement top, and chic flats. My top and shoes are both from last year. I really like these flats with the pearl embellished heel, and you can't go wrong with this plaid bell sleeve top or this tie front top.

Fancy Dinner Style
Does your family go all out for Thanksgiving? A silk shirt in a bold color paired with a tulle skirt and classic heels is perfect. My skirt is under $30 regular priced at Cato and has a stretchy waistband perfect for hiding that second helping of dressing. My blouse is from last year but I can definitely see this bright red top with this skirt as well. I picked these Jessica Simpson pumps off a Dillard's sales rack over the summer but she has so many good ones to choose from this season, many of which are on sale.

All I Want for Christmas: 20 Gifts for Working Moms

I can't believe it's time to start Christmas shopping. You'll find gift guides all over the internet - best gifts for kids, women, men, people who love to travel. The list goes on and on, but never have I ever seen one specifically for working moms. So I've scoured the internet for 20 gifts any working mom would be grateful to receive.

For the Office

1. Portable Charger - $29.99
Between checking email and keeping tabs on the kids, working moms' phones seem to always be on their last leg. This portable charger I linked to has great reviews and is recommended by the New York Times.

2. Artsy Paper Clips - $15 (pack of 20)
I love office supplies, especially when they're quirky.

3. Personalized Letter Opener - $19.99
Who says office supplies have to be devoid of meaning? I wouldn't say no to this personalized letter opener.

4. I Am Very Busy Stick Note Set - $12
Who doesn't love sticky notes? These get the job done while not taking themselves too seriously.

5. The Happy Planner (18 months) - $29.99
When you're balancing work and family, it's important to keep things organized. This 18 month planner is more than just a date book.

6. Lighted Makeup Mirror - $39.99
Often times moms are running from work straight to an event. This lighted makeup mirror is the perfect gift to keep them looking their best without slowing down.

After Hours Spa Day

1. Mama Bear Socks - $5.99
Who doesn't love a pair of cozy socks? I'm partial to these bear ones, but Old Navy has about a dozen different animals to choose from.

2. Sherpa Robe - $39.99
Your favorite working mama will feel like she's wrapped up in a cloud with this super soft robe.

3. Personal Massager - $29.95
Whether we don't have time or can't afford it, most of us aren't going for regular massages. That's why the Thera Cane Massager comes in. It has really great reviews and reaches all the places your hands can't.

4. Conair Waterfall Footbath - $32.99
After a long day on our feet in heels, this foot bath will be a real treat. This is actually on my gift list.

5. Bath Salts - $8
I get excited every time these become available again at Target. They are SO good.

6. Burt's Bees Hand Cream Trio - $12.99
One for her purse, one for her desk, one for her nightstand.

7. Bamboo Bath Caddy - $27.99
For the perfect spa day at home, this bath caddy has a place for all the important things.

Kitchen Help

1. Instant Pot - $79.99
If there's one thing all working moms love, it's a quick dinner, and the Instant Pot delivers just that.

2. Personalized Menu Planner - $19.99
For working moms, it's all about planning, but who said meal planning has to be boring?

3. Cute Lunch Tote - $30
For the mama who prefers to eat at her desk, give her something amazing to tote it in. How cute is the strawberry print on this Kate Spade lunch bag?

Just for Fun

1. Crystal-Stone Stretch Bracelet - $9.99
Just because we're a working mom doesn't mean we don't like a little bit of sparkle. I'm partial to the rose gold one but it also comes in blue and crystal.

2. Mother-Daughter Necklace - $44.95
I love when jewelry sends a message, and the message of this mother-daughter necklace is too beautiful to pass up.

3. Fun Tote Bag - $15
Working moms have a lot to carry, so why not give the working mom in your life something fun to carry all her junk...I mean necessary things.

4. Mom Life: A Snarky Adult Coloring Book - $8.63
Coloring is such a good stress reliever, and this coloring book is made just for moms with a sense of humor. At less than $10, it's a perfect stocking stuffer!

Instagram Roundup

It's been a long, busy week. Friday was meant to be the day we sent the December issue to press but a last-minute decision was made to extend to next week. All of my editorial stuff is done, so thankfully I don't have to worry about that, but now I've got some extra time to bring in more advertisers (hopefully). Then it's on to my favorite holiday of the year, Thanksgiving! Things will be a little different this year with some family still dealing with the aftermath of Hurricane Michael. I hope everyone has had a wonderful weekend!

Here's what you missed on Instagram this week:

Shirt: Kohl's  (wearing medium)| Jeans: Old Navy  (size 6)| Boots: ShoeDazzle (size 7 wide calf)

Wrap: old (similar) | Turtleneck: Old Navy (similar) | Leggings: The Limited (similar) | Boots: ShoeDazzle (recommend sizing up at least half)

Sweater: Old Navy (wearing medium) | Jeans: Kohl's (size 6) | Boots: Old (similar)

Thermal: JCPenney (wearing medium) | Jeans: Kohl's (size 6) | Boots: Old (similar)

Mommy & Me Floral Dresses

One of the things I love about Old Navy is that they often have the same patterns in their women and little girl's sections. I very rarely dress Alexis to match me, especially during the week, but on the weekends I do like to kind of coordinate our colors. Do you dress your kids to match you?

I literally just bought both of these dresses but cannot find mine online. I linked to the same dress in other colors below. Definitely check your local store!

Details:

My Dress - exact

Her Dress - exact

My Boots - similar

Her Boots - exact

Instagram Roundup + What I Loved This Week

Sweater: Kohl's | Jeans: Kohl's | Boots: Belk (exact)

Winter showed up in Alabama this weekend and looks like it's going to stick around for at least the next week. That means I'll be pulling out all my favorite sweaters, like the one above seen on my Instagram feed (and featured in last week's What I'm Wearing This Fall post). I'm going to try to start doing Instagram round-ups every Saturday, along with links to things I shared/saved throughout the week. Have a great weekend!

Shirt: JCPenney | Jeans: Old Navy | Boots: ShoeDazzle (similar)

Shirt: Charlotte Russe (similar) | Jeans: Aeropostale | Boots: ShoeDazzle

Shirt: Old Navy (similar) | Pants: Old Navy (similar) | Boots: Belk (exact)

Things that made me laugh:

Extra Angry Cat

Dinos vs Christmas Decorations

Hair Washing or Exorcism?

Things that improved my life:

Hair dryer diffuser tutorial

The Top 10 Secrets of Stylish Women

What you missed on the blog this week:

From Traditional News to Niche Journalism

Plaid & Fancy Free

Plaid & Fancy Free

In the past week I've learned a couple of things that it probably shouldn't have taken me this long to figure out. First up is how to correctly use the diffuser on my hair dryer. Second, how to roll my shirt sleeves so they're comfortable and don't have to be readjusted all day long. Speaking of shirts, raise your hand if you love a good plaid button-up for fall and winter. This one from Old Navy is so soft and comes in lots of other colors. One thing about plaid is that if you don't wear it just right, it comes off looking like a lumberjack. To avoid that, try wearing a statement necklace, and if you're wearing it with jeans try some with an interesting detail like my raw hems. I also tied mine up to keep it a little more on trend (although I will say I tied it a little shorter than I intended).

Details:
Shirt: Old Navy
Jeans: Old Navy (similar, similar)
Boots: Target (similar)

From Traditional News to Niche Journalism

This was the first election day in nine years I didn't cover. Instead, I spent the day working in my home office on the December issue of Wiregrass Parents. When I first made the switch from traditional news to this niche of journalism, I seriously considered rebranding this blog and removing the word journalist from all of my public bios. In the end I decided to keep the moniker I worked so hard to earn, but it did get me to thinking about the importance of different types of journalism.

One of the things I've learned over the years is that everyone's interpretation of news differs depending on where they live, what's happening at the moment, and their own interests. There are very few people out there who care about all news, myself included. I rarely watch the news on television, and I certainly don't read every article in a newspaper or magazine. Instead, I filter my news and only read or watch what I'm interested in learning more about, things like parenting trends, pediatrician recommendations, what's happening in our local school system, the sports teams I follow, and my guilty pleasure - entertainment news. I suspect many of you consume news in the same way.

When I first decided I wanted to be a journalist, I wanted to work for a newspaper, but I didn't want to be a reporter. I wanted to be an editor; specifically I wanted to be the layout editor. When I went to college, I focused on features and more in-depth stories, and decided I wanted to work for a magazine. When I graduated, I applied for jobs in specific niches including layout, sports, and lifestyles. None of that worked out obviously, and I ended up working for a television news station doing traditional news for nine years. Now, I'm back to what I originally wanted to do with my journalism career.

Just because I'm no longer writing stories about daily news doesn't make me any less of a journalist. Being a journalist is about presenting relevant information to a specific audience. In my case, instead of using my skills to deliver daily news to a broad audience that could include literally anyone, I'm hyper-focused on parenting news. It's no different than ESPN only doing sports or Forbes only reporting business news. By zeroing in on a specific audience, we don't have to worry about alienating a dozen people who don't care about parenting issues. And for the most part, those journalists who work in a specific niche have qualifications beyond the basic skill set and are actually interested in what they're covering.

So, yes, I still consider myself a journalist. I still research topics, fact-check, gather information, and compile it in a way that makes sense to my readers. I don't report on crime or sports or politics, but I am providing a much-needed resource for parents in the Wiregrass. The focus of my calling may have shifted, but the results are the same and just as rewarding, maybe even more so.

Recipe: Italian Chicken & Veggies

This is one of my absolute favorite week-night meals. It's so easy, super flavorful, and can be made for about $10. Even my 3 year old doesn't complain about it!

Prep Time: 10 minutes
Cook Time: 1 Hour
Total Time: 1 hour 10 minutes

Ingredients:
2 lbs. Chicken Breast/Thighs
2 Cans Whole New Potatoes (brand optional)
1 Can French-Style Green Beans
1 Packet Dry Italian Dressing
1 tbsp. Butter

Directions:
Heat oven to 350 degrees.
Arrange chicken down middle of 13x9 glass pan. Depending on how big your pieces are, you may need to cut them. I prefer to use breasts but you can easily substitute thighs.
Drain veggies. Arrange on either side of chicken. You can substitute any vegetables for this. We also like to use carrots, and I want to try broccoli!
Sprinkle the dry Italian dressing over the chicken and vegetables.
Spread about one tablespoon of butter around the pan. You can melt it and pour it over everything if you want, but I'm lazy.
Cover with foil and cook for 1 hour.