Thursday, April 28, 2022

4 Green Spring Outfits


This might be the most pitiful Real Outfit Roundup I've ever done. The last two weeks have been all over the place, and I apparently didn't take more than four outfit pictures throughout it. I wore a lot of shorts/jeans and a t-shirt combos, though, which I don't make a habit of documenting (although this post indicates that maybe I should start...).

Anyway, our spring weather has stuck around much longer this year than it normally does, and I'm not complaining! I'll definitely miss the low 70s, high 80s when we're seeing triple digits on the daily. And apparently I've had a thing for green since it seems to be the only color I've got on camera. And for whatever reason, I have no pictures of myself from over Easter weekend, and I honestly can't remember what I wore, so we'll start with last Tuesday, April 19.

Sizing: I'm 5'2", 145 lbs., and typically wear size 6 or small in clothes and size 7 shoe.
 
Sweatshirt (similar) / Shorts / Shoes

Alright, so looking back in my schedule, this was the day after I took my car to the shop and had to deal with the whole rental car fiasco, so I spent most of it playing catch-up. I'm pretty sure it was windy and staying in the mid-70s, so I wanted sleeves but jeans would have been too warm. I really like the way the light green sweatshirt and pale pink of the shorts combined.

These shorts are recent from Walmart. I'd been wanting some non-denim options for this summer and had been eying the chino shorts Old Navy currently has but just hate the stretchy back waistband on them. These have a small stretchy part on the sides, which is not obvious at all. I also got them in blue and green.

Shirt / Skirt (similar) / Shoes

I have no idea what I did this day and looking at my schedule doesn't help at all. I know I was helping out with one of my sister magazine's school news layout, but that's about it. This skirt is one of my favorites, but I haven't had a ton of reasons to play around with it. I really like how this cactus shirt worked with it, though. Can you tell it's purple? It's not a super bright purple, but it is. This just felt like a fun, playful outfit, and I had a lot of fun wearing it.

Shirt / Skirt / Shoes (similar)

This is an example of how a seemingly simple outfit can be interesting. It might be a little difficult to tell in this picture, but my shirt is an eyelet pattern with a smocked neck, and my skirt is seersucker. I added the belt to give me a more defined waist.

Dress (similar) / Shoes (similar)

If you think this dress looks familiar, you'd be correct. I got it before Christmas because I thought it was the perfect green for winter, but I also love it for the rest of the year. Paired with these simple gold sandals, I felt like of like a Grecian goddess all day long. And I was having a really nice non-curly hair day, so that helps!

Wednesday, April 27, 2022

An Honest Review of Monat's Damage Repair Line

I tried Monat's full Damage Repair line of products for one month. These are my results.


A lot of people were excited when Monat released their Damage Repair line of products earlier this year. It's supposed to help restore hair that's been damaged by heat, coloring, etc. And the results I've seen people share...wow.

At the time of its release, it wasn't something I needed. The only heat styling I use is a hair dryer...once or twice a week. I straighten or use a curling wand on average maybe three times a month. I've never colored my hair outside of those temporary wash-in ones by Overtone. Basically, other than having split ends when I go too long between haircuts, my hair isn't damaged.

Then, I got Covid at the beginning of the year, and three months later my hair started showing signs of...well, something. I was experiencing more hair loss, a lot of dryness, and just overall not being able to keep my style. So I decided it was a good time to give the damage repair line a try.


Before we dive into my results from the last month, let's talk about the products that make up this line.


These products were tested in an independent lab. Results show the shampoo on its own improves hair strength by 47 percent. The hair treatment, which takes the place of conditioner, as well as the masque and leave-in were shown to reduce breakage by 95-97 percent, while the masque was shown to improve smoothness and the leave-in to reduce frizz and increase shine.


I started using the full line at the end of March. My typical routine is to do a full wash and condition once or twice a week, three-five days apart depending on my activity and the weather. I started out using it every week but ended up scaling back to every other week.

I washed with the shampoo twice, then applied the hair treatment. Depending on the week, I would either apply the masque over the hair treatment or rinse it out. Then I applied the leave-in to towel-dried hair, followed by my usual styling products.


Here are the things I liked:

🗸The shampoo has a really nice lather. My hair isn't particularly thick, but I do have a lot of it, so I need a good lather to get all the way through to the roots.

🗸The masque made an immediately-noticeable difference in my hair's texture.

🗸The leave-in crème didn't dry crunchy. I hate having to constantly scrunch out the crunch.

🗸My curls were definitely more defined on day one of the wash cycle. More on that later.

🗸Less frizz.


As much as I want to say that these products were perfect for me, I can't. Unfortunately, there were a few cons for me.

✗ I did not like the hair treatment. A lot of that had to do with the applicator, but I felt like I never got it applied evenly throughout my hair.

✗ The smell. I do not like strongly-scented products, and this line is pretty overwhelming for me scent-wise.

✗ These products were overall too heavy for my hair type. Three of the four contain coconut oil, which admittedly is great for curls, but not for my low-porosity hair. I ended up with oily roots by day three at least, sometimes day two, and my curls did not hold up well past day 1 at all.

At the end of the day, my hair is not nearly damaged enough to warrant consistent use. At the most, I would need to rotate it every other week, but more realistically I think once a month would probably do all I need. The masque and leave-in crème are the products I would use the most consistently.

Monday, April 25, 2022

Monday Motivation


Happy Monday, friends. I came across this self-care series on Pinterest, and the slide about stress is what I need in my life right now. I am stressed, y'all. From work to personal life, there is a lot going on right now, and I feel like I'm being pulled in a bunch of different directions.

We are officially putting our house on the market this week, so this past weekend was 'crunch time' for getting things in order. Alexis spent the weekend with grandparents so that made things easier, but Chris had to work both days so that meant the bulk of the cleaning fell to me. However, I was able to get pretty much everything done and even a few things boxed up (Alexis is not happy about all her art supplies, LOL).

Last week was... Well, stressful is about the only word I can come up with to describe it.

On Monday, I took my car to the shop for the bumper to be fixed from where I was rear-ended in February, then had a truly aggravating experience with the rental company. I made the reservation but then couldn't get them to answer the phone for a pick-up, so Chris ended up leaving work and sitting with me at their office for over two hours! At least I know it wasn't just me. When we got there a lady told us about how she'd been calling for an hour and finally had to come up there just to add another day. Then, in what might be the best part of that entire experience, a lady came storming in, threw her keys at them, told them she didn't have time to keep waiting on them to take their car back, and stormed back out. So, whew. A lot of unhappy people dealing with Enterprise.

In terms of work, this past month has been almost a carbon copy of the previous month in that people just are not responding...even for the free services we offer. So it's been frustrating and stressful on that front. We also are officially transitioning to our new photographer, so that's an added level of stress. And one of the editors who works on the trio of magazines based out of Mobile's computer crashed, so I volunteered to help with their layout so they would make deadline. That wasn't really stressful because it's what I actually like to do the most, but it was something I hadn't planned on being part of my schedule so I had to shift stuff around.

Anyway, I feel like this post has turned into a doom and gloom situation. I'm find, really, just got an overflowing plate at the moment. It'll all work itself out in the next week or so, though. I hope.

I hope you all have a wonderful week!

Friday, April 22, 2022

3 Series I'm Reading Right Now + What's New on My TBR


I'm always interested in what other people are reading. In fact, some of my favorite conversations are about books. That's why every so often I like to take the time to share the books that have caught my attention. Lately, however, I find myself bouncing around between three series. I've also added a handful of other books to my TBR list, as well, and I'm sharing those at the end of this post.

What are you reading?


Neverland: Chronicles of Red - This is the follow-up series to the two-season Toxic Wonderland saga. I'm currently in book 3, Neverblood. Ira is a fixer who's been trained her entire life to fix whatever has caused Neverland to turn toxic, but when she's not prepared for what she finds once she actually enters the fairytale. Turns out, another tale has invaded Peter Pan's world. Now Ira must gather her crew, master magic, and set Neverland to rights.


The Deadly Seven - The Deadly Seven are a set of genetically-modified siblings. Each has been designed to sense a specific sin and eradicate it, but this family of heroes doesn't have the same agenda as their creator and would-be controller. Instead of killing anyone guilty of sin, they work to curtail it, all while seeking their perfect opposite, their soulmates. I'm currently in book 3, Wrath.


Court of the Underworld - This series is a bit complicated to explain without spoilers, but I'll do my best. The Court of the Underworld is made up of Hades and his inner circle, including Asterion (aka the Minotaur), Medusa, Erebus, Charon, and Hermes. There are some other gods, goddesses, and demigods running around, as well. The Court is being pursued by a group called Pithos, whose mission is to rid the Earth of "monsters." Their attempts at taking out these legends of mythology are thwarted by love. I'm currently in book 3, Hades.

Now for my TBR list. It's still just as out-of-control as ever. There are just too many good books out there to not keep adding to it, and if I don't add them when I see them, I'll forget and possibly miss out on my next favorite story. Anyway, here we go!


Case Files of an Urban Witch - The cover of this boxset caught my attention. It looks a bit like the sorting hat from HP, right? Then I read the blurb and discovered it's about a mother of three who's also a secret agent keeping magic hidden. Talk about a balancing act. I can't wait!

Nature Wizard: Magic of Nasci - If there's one thing you should know about me, it's that I love weather witches. So a book about a lightning witch is right up my alley.

Academy of  Necessary Magic - First of all, the very first book in this series is called Shifter in the Swamp. If that's not a great title, I don't know what is.

Daughter of the Pirate King - I've been on a pirate kick here lately, and Alsoa seems like the type of protagonist I can really stand behind.

The Desert of Glass (Monument book 2) - I read The Last Monument last year and really enjoyed it. I had no idea there would be a follow-up book, so I have high hopes.

The Half-Life of Ruby Fielding - I absolutely love Lydia Kang's work, and this WWII mystery is sure to be intriguing.

Seven Sins boxset - This showed up in my recommendations after I read the first Deadly Seven book. It's a different premise altogether, though.

Hidden Hope (Hope series book 1) -The blurb on this one doesn't give away much, but it was recommended in one of my online book groups. Plus, this first line is too intriguing: "It all started with a naked man in an alley..."

Wednesday, April 20, 2022

How to Style a Midi Skirt


Much like a maxi dress, the midi skirt is a great transitional piece for Spring, but just like the maxi dress, a midi skirt can be tricky to get just right. In fact, I'll go so far as to say that midi skirts can be downright awkward. If not styled the right way, you'll end up looking frumpy.

Possible awkwardness aside, midi skirts have become one of my favorite things to wear. They make me feel feminine and flirty, but unlike a maxi dress they take a little more effort to turn into a polished outfit. In this post, I'll share some tips for finding the right midi skirt for your body type and share some ideas for how to style them as the weather continues to warm up.

Did You Know? Midi skirts were made famous by actresses like Audrey Hepburn in the 1950s.

Let's start with the basics.

A midi skirt is designed to hit you at about mid-calf, hence their name, and are meant to be worn at the narrowest part of your waist. Here's the thing, though, mid-calf is the worst place to visually chop your legs off!

Bottom line, it's all about getting the proportions right! If you're petite, this style of skirt can make you look even shorter if you're not careful, so you may want to opt for a style that stops just below your knee. Or, if you're like me, you'll prefer ones that are 2-3 inches above your ankle. Play around different hemlines between your knee and ankle until you get it just right.

Although midi skirts tend to be looser, there are tighter cuts available. They don't work for me, so unfortunately I don't have any ideas to show you for those.

As with everything, color and print will affect the way a midi skirt looks on your body. Simple, small prints work nicely on smaller people, while bolder prints or florals work for those of us who are curvier. Solid colors are universally flattering.

Keep in mind that I am by no means an expert. These are all guidelines, not rules, and when it comes to fashion, pretty much anything goes. So if you like something, wear it! But if you do need some more advice for how to balance your midi skirt, check out this article.

Now for the fun part of this post - outfit ideas! I rounded up daily outfit pics from the last couple of years to show you ways that I regularly wear my maxi dresses. There are 24 in all, so plenty of inspiration for you to make the most out of your maxi dress collection this Spring.

A note before we get started: these skirts range in size from a small to a large, depending on when I purchased them, and several are old enough to no longer be available. If you've got questions about any of them, you can leave a comment below or email me, and I'll do my best to help!

Sizing info: I'm 5'2" and weigh around 145 lbs. I typically wear size small or 6 in clothing and size 7 in shoes.

 

I decided for the purpose of this post to break it up by skirt. We're going to start with this pretty pink polka-dot number. This skirt has an elastic waistband, is pleated, and has pockets. It also comes in several other colors.

One of the things I like best about this skirt is how easy it is to take into different seasons. As you can see in the first two pictures, I've layered a jacket over a simple top and added boots. I do want to point out that I frequently break a pretty common midi skirt rule by wearing ankle boots. Because of my height, most midi skirts hit an inch or two below mid-calf on me, making tall boots awkward. Plus, I think that rule is stupid anyway. Moving on...

 

Another thing I love about this skirt is how easy it is to dress up or down with just a few simple changes. Note in the first picture how I'm wearing a plain white t-shirt and flat sandals. In the second, I've swapped my t-shirt for an eyelet blouse that has a lower scoop neckline and traded my slide sandals for platforms. Oh, I feel the need to point out that those last shoes break another midi skirt rule: no ankle straps to cut off your leg line.

Up next is one of my faves - green gingham. Unfortunately this exact one is no longer available, but I found a similar one here. Anyway, you can see that a simple t-shirt and denim jacket is kind of a go-to for these type skirts for me. And, once again, I'm breaking the ankle strap rule, but it may not fully count since these are clear and you can't really see them.

 


One thing I love about midi skirts is their versatility. You can literally wear almost anything with them, y'all, including a sweatshirt like in the picture above or a sweater like in the picture below.


This floral skirt is one of the most versatile pieces in my closet, especially for spring. Sadly, this exact pattern is no longer available, but the skirt itself is.

I tend to keep things simple with this particular skirt and let the pattern do the talking, but it's easy to switch up the colors, use different shoes, or adding a jacket to change up the look.

 

 

Just because a skirt has an interesting pattern doesn't mean you have to keep it simple all the time. Take this gorgeous patchwork skirt. While a plain t-shirt would certainly work, I've been having fun with unexpected pairings like a tied button-up chambray and platform sandals or a graphic tee with braided heeled sandals.

 

Speaking of graphic tees, they're one of my favorite ways to add interest to a skirt outfit, and it works with pretty much any skirt...


 

...even an elevated one like this flounce-hemmed rainbow skirt. It was one of my most-worn skirts when I still worked in an office, but I loved it too much to part ways with it, so I've been learning new ways to style it a little more casually.

The same goes for this rose-patterned skirt I bought with Christmas in mind. It seemed such a shame to relegate it just to the holidays.

 

Midi skirts really are an easy way to dress up for any occasion. Adding a pair of heels is a simple way to elevate the look of a midi skirt.

Or you can choose one in an elevated fabric like this metallic one. I haven't played with dressing it down yet, but I have enjoyed styling it for several nicer events over the last few months.

 

Tulle is another fun alternative. I absolutely love this pink star-patterned skirt. This pattern isn't available right now, but there are some other cute ones. You can't go wrong with black tulle. You can't tell from the picture, but mine actually has black polka dots on it. It's several years old and I've not seen anything like it since.

 


While tulle is immensely easy to dress up, almost effortless truly, I just love dressing it down. A graphic tee, jacket optional, and fun sneakers do the trick every time. And I love this asymmetrical hem skirt.

I hope this post helps inspire you to give midi skirts a try and/or to be creative with the midi skirts you already own.

Monday, April 18, 2022

Monday Motivation


It's Monday again, friends, and I'm feeling a little blah. I've been stretched thin for weeks now, and it feels like it's starting to catch up to me. I've got to find a day somewhere to just breathe, but there really is just too much going on right now.

We had a nice Easter weekend, despite the crummy weather. We spent Saturday afternoon with my family and Sunday afternoon with Chris's family. We almost forgot to get Alexis an Easter surprise, so Chris was at Walmart Saturday night. It all worked out though.

Last week was a big blur of work-related stuff, and yet I feel like I didn't accomplish much. Honestly, what was trending upward seems to have stalled, and I've been scrambling not to lose the momentum I've been working on building back up since the summer of 2020, all while not stressing too much.

This week, my car finally gets repaired from when I was rear-ended back in February. In fact, that's where I'm going once I finish this post. I've got a few things to edit and a lot of ad work to do. I foresee a lot of time at my desk at any rate.

Okay, I've got to get my car to the repair shop soon, so I'm going to wrap this up now. I hope you all have a wonderful week!

Sunday, April 17, 2022

2022 Mother's Day Gift Guide


I feel like I talk about motherhood in some way, shape, or form all. the. time. Not only am I a mother, but my job is specifically crafted around that fact. Every month, I share a piece of my journey with my local parenting community, and I don't sugarcoat a thing. Let's face it, for all its loveliness, motherhood is messy and exhausting and often isolating. It's also the one "occupation" that is consistently commented on by others, with pretty much everyone you meet offering up some form of advice, solicited or not.

This is from my April publisher's note:

Becoming a mom is simultaneously the most rewarding and most difficult thing I’ve done in my life. It’s an all-consuming job, no matter your situation, and it’s so easy to lose yourself to mom burnout. I feel like that was the part I was the most unprepared for, and if I could go back and give my new-mom self some words of wisdom, it would be these:

Take a real shower, brush your hair (even if it does end up in a messy bun), and put on real clothes. Getting ready for the day will make a huge difference in your mood.

Know who your village is, and don’t be afraid to call them for help while you adjust to your new family dynamic.

Trust your instincts. When something feels not right, listen to your mom gut. You’ll be surprised just how often it’s right.

And sleep when the baby sleeps. I say that one with a little bit of irony, but it’s still good advice. Sleep will be hard to come by in that first year, so if you can, sleep when the baby sleeps. Especially if you are tired. Those dirty dishes and piles of laundry can wait.

Moms are absolutely worth celebrating every day of every month, but especially on the day that's set aside specifically for them each year. That's why I've once again put together my annual Mother's Day Gift Guide, but this year's looks a little bit different from years past. As always, I tried to curate it with working moms in mind, but at the same time I specifically chose items that I would like to receive.

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Rose Gold Dot Journal - Would this be one of my gift guides if it didn't have some type of journal or notebook included? I've had a thing for rose gold lately, and I really love this simple little book.

Camera Lens Coffee Mug - This is maybe the coolest coffee mug I've ever seen.

Mother Like No Other Coffee Cup & Saucer - I love pretty coffee cups, and I recently saw a really cute idea for turning them into succulent planters. This would be perfect for sipping your morning joe or adding a bit of greenery to your desk.

Stackable Desk Tray - I'm always looking for smart ways to be more organized, and I absolutely love this set of rose gold stackable trays.

She Inspires Gift Book - We could all use a bit of motivation, and this book is just so lovely.

Blue Patchwork Tiered Dress - A pretty dress that's easy to lounge in is a must, especially for work-at-home moms like me. I am in love with this pretty blue patchwork pattern.

Loungewear or PJs- Can you ever have too much? I don't think so.

Magazine Holder Side Table - Is this not the perfect little accent for your favorite reading spot?

Artificial Eucalyptus Wreath - I'm a firm believer that every office needs a bit of greenery, and this wreath is perfect! I've already got a spot picked out...

2-Tier Dish Drying Rack - I absolutely need this.

Winky Lux Flower Balm Lip Stain - I'm so intrigued by this lip stain. It's supposed to match your unique pigmentation for the perfect color.

Purifying Scalp Scrub - This is one of my favorite products, and I recommend it to everyone!

Hair Claw Clips - I love being able to pull my hair up off my neck, but I don't always like to put it in a ponytail holder. These clips would solve that problem!

Berry Refined Scrub - This is another favorite product for me. Used once a week, it helps keep my skin smooth. It also smells really good.

Cold Charcoal Mask - This is my favorite face mask ever. It's a great way to pamper yourself after a long week.

Thursday, April 14, 2022

8 Spring Outfits to Try


It's time for another Real Outfit Roundup. For those who aren't familiar, every two weeks I share the outfits I wore in real life that I actually managed to snap a picture of, a little bit about what I was doing the day I wore it, and links to shop the same or similar items.

It has been a busy two weeks, but that's pretty standard for this time of year. You'll notice a pretty big shift in my outfits. It is most definitely Spring in the South now, complete with severe weather and random cold, windy days thrown in the mix. Despite that, this has become my favorite season to dress for because it's truly the only time of year where I can have fun with layers and seemingly mismatched proportions.

Anyway, this is a rare outfit roundup that truly spans the gamut of what Spring can be. Let's jump right on in!

Sizing: I'm 5'2" and weigh about 145 lbs. I wear size small or 6 in most clothing and size 7 in shoes.

purple-gingham-button-down
Shirt (similar, similar) / Shorts / Sandals (similar) / Purse

We'll start with the last day of March. I had a good bit of web work to do for the magazine this day to get the April issue published on the first day of the new month. That meant lots of time at my desk, so I wanted to be comfortable but feel put together at the same time. This lilac gingham button-up is an old favorite. Back when I bought it, it was described as a 'camp shirt,' but the terminology has since changed. I paired it with my super comfy Sofia Vergara shorts (that I showed in my last ROR) and my trusty white knock-off Burks. I snapped this either going to or coming back in from the afternoon car pick-up line. Other than yoga first thing that morning, I didn't do anything else, and I distinctly remember this being the third day in a row I wore my hair in a bun.

bootcut-jeans-floral-smocked-waist-blouse
Shirt (similar) / Jeans / Shoes

This was the day after Alexis's birthday party. I didn't get a full picture of what I wore for that, sadly. I don't remember what we did this particular Sunday. I'm assuming we went to a few stores and at least to lunch. Otherwise I'm sure I would not have dressed so nicely.

I've had this pair of bootcut jeans for a really long time. I've always loved them, although I didn't remember them being quite so low-waisted. I really like how this smock-waist blouse pairs with them. The proportions are really nice, I think, and help accentuate my higher waist.

mom-mode-sweatshirt-with-shorts

We had severe weather this day, so school was dismissed early. Even though I knew it was going to happen, I was still not prepared for it, so just threw on my new favorite shorts and this comfy sweatshirt. Once I had picked Alexis up and gotten us some lunch, we went home and stayed there. All her after-school stuff was canceled, and I pushed the rest of my work for the day to the next day.

pink-yellow-plaid-tiered-midi-dress

This dress makes me feel like an Easter egg, but in the best way. I picked it up on a random Walmart trip and busted it out at the first sight of 80-degree weather last week. The skirt is tiered, it has a really loose fit (almost too loose in the bust for me), and cute fluttery shoulder straps. It isn't lined, and I honestly can't remember if it has pockets. It's so thin, I probably wouldn't put my phone in them anyway.

blue-gingham-dress-with-pink-fuzzy-jacket

blue-gingham-dress

I cannot say no to blue gingham, and I absolutely love this dress. This was a really busy day, filled with a lot of walking and moving around, so I paired it with my white leather sneakers. It also cooled off a good bit that evening, so I threw my fuzzy pink jacket over it when I headed to the event I attended, hence the other picture. It's got small puff sleeves, a tiered skirt, a cute bow detail on the back, and pockets. It was super comfortable to wear all day, and I got lots of compliments while I was out and about.

purple-striped-henley-sweater

This was a really busy but fun day. We went to a local Spring Festival where we spent pretty much the entire day, starting with visiting with the Easter Bunny at the Farmers Market, to shopping with local vendors, pony rides and a petting zoo, a local Italian café for lunch, and ending with frozen yogurt. Then we came back to town and unsuccessfully tried to find my mom some shoes for Easter, and I snapped a pic in the bathroom of one of the stores we went in.

It was cold and windy all day, so a sweater and jeans was definitely in order. I wore my leather jacket at the festival for another layer but didn't need it in the store. I love this purple striped henley sweater. It's so perfect for Spring, especially paired with white jeans, and I love how crisp my white leather sneakers look with the white bottoms.

strapless-green-floral-maxi-with-denim-vest
Dress / Vest (similar) / Shoes / Purse

Are y'all tired of seeing this dress yet? I hope not because it's really turned into my go-to dress for the season. I've shown it before paired with a dark denim jacket, a tan denim jacket, and a light blue grandpa cardigan. This go 'round I opted for my denim vest and my taupe platform sandals.

mixed-print-maxi-skirt-with-chambray-button-down
Shirt (similar) / Skirt / Shoes / Purse

I cannot stop singing this skirt's praises, y'all. I love it so much. Instead of a graphic t-shirt, I wanted to do something a little more unexpected. There's some blue hidden in the pattern, so I used this short-sleeve chambray button-up to pull that out. The shirt didn't tuck nicely for this skirt because of it's wide smocked waistband, so I tied it instead, which worked out nicely for accentuating my waist. My taupe sandals are a perfect neutral for this skirt.